Different stages of relationship
Every relationship is divided into stages in which two individuals touch and influence each other in ways only best known to them. A relationship starts when they meet each other and there is a spark. It is not necessary that their meeting across the room or in way where either of the partners sees the other dealing with their usual schedule, not always clichéd situations like these make you meet the person you have always dreamed of in your wildest of fantasies. That person might be ‘mutual friends’, date from the social media platform, or even stranger in the room. It maybe the way they speak, things they talk about or even the warmth of their vibe and you are just hooked. You start spending more time with the person and you get comfortable in the presence of the person. You start discovering things you have common, places you eat, music you listen to, hobbies that interest you. Within days you become the people who confide into each other, telling each other their problems, secrets and things which put a smile to their face. And then you utter those magical words, I LOVE YOU. Everything around you changes when you hear it back. You become a lover, you enter into a magical place where things are just the way you ever imagined in your dreams. Everything the person hates or loves is the thing you hate or love. You want it to last forever but you forget what the other wants. After the honeymoon period comes a period of misconceptions, doubts, assumptions just dive the relationship into a limbo. The fights don’t stop, then it comes a time when you need to decide if the fights are more important than the relationship and due to actually love the person in totally to let that go. It is that decision which breaks or makes a relationship. You just need to measure if your ego is greater than your love.